i am fed up dealing with nepalese, fed up with them taking me for granted. want to do something good, and then khutta taana tan. no responsibility, just play. thats what I have noticed with MAJORITY of nepalese i have met. They try to act all cool like they dont give a sh!t. I love my country and my culture but I am starting to feel irritated by my own people. I compare us with other countrymen and sometimes feel we are soooo far behind.

I am not stereotyping this to ALL nepalese, but majority of us. when will we ever learn?

You alll are welcome to flame me, but you all know the truth, you all just scared to let it out because you wanna be patriotic. well defending bunch of idiots will not make one. realize the truth.

jai nepal

Sanchai hunuhunchha? Ma pani.

No medal or gratitude was expected from my distance relatives for my services....Matter of fact, I never expect to get a early morning phone call from a happy DV winner every year, but I do. How could I authoritatively say to folks that "No you are not welcome in my house". In many cases the help provider is bound by their custom to provide food and shelter to the new comers. Alaska couldn't be that bad, could it? Free fish too...

Very important thing you should know in this country:

Well if the medal or gratitute was not expected then WHAT ARE YOU WHINING ABOUT ? If you never expected to get a phone call from a happy DV winner every year then you need to stop givin' out your phone number to them. OR WHEN YOU GOTO NEPAL STOP OFFERING YOUR PLACE SAYING, "Oh Hami kahaa basnaa ayeee bhai halcha ni." Tell them exactly what's on your mind instead of being MR NICE GUY AND OFFERING YOUR PLACE. TELL THEM THE TRUTH whas on your mind.

Well if you dun want the hassle from them then you have to be that asshole and tell them the truth(like it or not). YOU CANOOT ALWAYS BE MR NICE GUY IN LIFE(sometimes you have to be that asshole too).

There is no such thing as custom once you come here. ONLY FREE WILL and the balls to say what you want instead of sayiing what looks nice in front of others.

GP,
The last post u made is pretty neat, and it can be very good tips for new comers. I knew about not coming out of car and not putting hands inside pocket when stopped by cops, and not telling 'sorry' when involved in car accidents. I think u should start a new thread with that post.

I am sorry, but it is very hard to understand GP. I am sure he has good heart and is sharing useful information, but as I said, it is very hard to understand his writing. Perhaps, GP should write in Nepali, or at least, Roman Nepali forthe sake of good communication.

Be Happy.

we should convert all nepalese to DHARANES, hell ya!!!

Have Fun....

Gp dai i agreed with your post.I hope People who just 've been comming to this country even who does'nt know about the rules and regulation of this country they will really be facilitate by your communal posted.

It is sad indeed you had to barrow from BC, who is nothing but negetism and stupid to the to the core. I was born and raised all B/R/&W but something like Bathroom coffee has no place in America. This type of degenerate will foul the entire place for the Asian migrants.
Being critical of ones opinion is one thing but out right ignorant and typing in capital letters to be heard is just simply Negroid. Those who feed on this type of stupidity (the likes of Capt, Samsara, gahgoro and even loote and poonte should also acknowledge the fact that you are feeding the dumb F**k. Learn to ignore the one who are good for nothing and learn from someone like GP (less in volume but high in substance). I may not have a college degree yet but I sure can distinguish trash form treasure.

hahahaa KK-KK, your pseudonym reeks of the KKK's stench to me. Hatemongers like you are the ones here in sajha leading to its degeneration...What da hell do you mean by "typing in capital letters to be heard is just simply Negroid??" Stereotypes now, huh?? (I guess you do the same when you see a bahun, newar, madhise around). This is just friggin ironically stupid that you of all people are trying to pormote tranquility and brotherhood here! hahahaha Damn, do my posts say that I was born yesterday?? C'mon practice what you preach, aight??

GP has always provided some of the most consensual points into some of the threads here and though I read his works, am among the silent majority who choose not to respond. And BC, yes, the guy goes ballistic but this is a free forum where we can speak out on anything that irks us as long as the majority agrees with what you have to say. And, apparently a lot of us do!

Hmmm.... go to BBB.org for help.

Being critical of ones opinion is one thing but out right ignorant and typing in capital letters to be heard is just simply Negroid. Those who feed on this type of stupidity (the likes of Capt, Samsara, gahgoro and even loote and poonte should also acknowledge the fact that you are feeding the dumb F**k. Learn to ignore the one who are good for nothing and learn from someone like GP (less in volume but high in substance). I may not have a college degree yet but I sure can distinguish trash form treasure.


KK-KK states,"It is sad indeed you had to barrow from BC, who is nothing but negetism and stupid to the to the core."
Ok MORON I am stupid and negative to the core FINE. I do not make apologies for that. BUT JUST TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT YOURSELF SHITHEAD !!! he he WHAT THE FUG DO YOU THINK YOU ARE DOING HERE TALKING SHIT ABOUT ME ? AND THAT IS VERY POSITIVE AND ENLIGHTENING ? ha ha ha FUGGER THINKS HE IS VERY SCINTILLATING
TALKING SHIT ABOUT OTHERS. he he he

KK-KK states," I was born and raised all B/R/&W but something like Bathroom coffee has no place in America. This type of degenerate will foul the entire place for the Asian migrants."
Ha ha ha I have no place in America ? SAYS WHO ? ha ha ha YOU THE PERPLEXED IDIOT ? I WILL FOUL THE ENTIRE ASIAN MIGRANTS ? AND HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT MR ASIAN MIGRANT VIRTUOSO ? ha ha ha MOTHAFUGGER THINKS HE HAD A PHD IN ASIAN MIGRANT WELFARE. ha ha ha Oh yeah I might have seen you comenting on THE SITUATION ROOM HOW BATHROOMCOFFEE DEGENERATES THE ASIAN COMMUNITY. ha ha ha AND HE THINKS HE IS DOING GREAT COMMUNITY SERVICE BY TALKING SHIT ABOUT OTHERS.


KK-KK states,"Being critical of ones opinion is one thing but out right ignorant and typing in capital letters to be heard is just simply Negroid. Those who feed on this type of stupidity (the likes of Capt, Samsara, gahgoro and even loote and poonte should also acknowledge the fact that you are feeding the dumb F**k. Learn to ignore the one who are good for nothing and learn from someone like GP (less in volume but high in substance)."
OK SMART ONE he he I am ignorant FINE. I KNOW NOTHING AND YOU KNOW EVERYTHING FINE With me. WHETHER I WANT TO WRITE IN CAPITAL LETTERS, TALK SHIT, OR ANYTHING IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. ITS A FREE COUNTRY YOU CAN SAY WHAT YOU WANT(whether it be idiotic or intelligent), and thats something an IGNORAMUS LIKE YOU WOULD NOT COMPREHEND. he he YEAH IDIOTS HAVE A VOICE TOO. ha ha ha ha AND THEY(IDIOTS) GET TO SAY WHAT THEY WANT TOO ha ha ha JUST INSCRIBE IN THAT HEAD FULL OF SHIT. I dunno where you get that all sajhaites feeding me ...he he I do that 9-5 and feed myself MORON .. he he DO NOT NEED ANYONE"S APPROVAL TO SAY WHAT I WANT TO SAY. YEAH NUMB-NUT WHY DON"T YOU JUST IGNORE ME(TRASH) AND MIND YOUR OWN BIDNESS. I AM NOT TRYING TO BEFRIEND YOU EITHER. he he

i like roasted columbian narino coffee, and i get that when i go thru BC’s post....thats i why i prefer his post.....refreshes me....keep it high and loud BC...

(went thru last five posts of this thread real quick....so its an act in snap....kishnekale is the only thing i have here in sajha so only two Ks....durr durr tak koi rista nahi hai baanki k se )

jaada jaadai....self-promotion garne technique purano laagyo.....arkaka kaand baata banduk nachalau....

I have Best Reason:

Here is the story, and conclude yourselves.

A landlord went to pilgrim and followed by his pet dog. After a month long travel the dog united with his fellows.
All in one word asked “Were you treated well by the landlord, the master".

He answered them, I was well treated and he feed me first then himself, He re-pays me more than I have served to him.

But,

I had trouble with my own brotherhood and sisterhood. They were the one who did not let me travel further, blocking my way, hitting , kicking and biting me. See all these scars and wound I got.

You are one of the dogs who hated his own fellow brotherhood. You have nothing to do more than hating own fellows.

damm GP .. u must spend entire time to write all this stuffs...good job ...
i really appreciate u writing and making sense to all senseless people ...

keep on ..

I was done commenting on this thread but want to respond to a couple of things:

"Those who feed on this type of stupidity (the likes of Capt, Samsara, gahgoro and even loote and poonte should also acknowledge the fact that you are feeding the dumb F**k. Learn to ignore the one who are good for nothing and learn from someone like GP (less in volume but high in substance)."

Benign stupidity can be ignored. Harmless needling can be ignored too. I have it to others in the past as well. However, if stupidity is to be used an excuse to trash other people's character, families and personal lives and throw around racist and casteist insults, then it must be dealt with. If some people have a high threshold for tolerating such things, then that's their choice, but not everyone chooses to take it that way.Not me at least. No one with an ounce of dignity can "ignore" personal attacks of the nature we often see on Sajha. Besides it ridiculous and unreal to expect that someone should be allowed to go around throwing shit unchecked and others should just take it lying down.

Anyways, what's the harm in striving for sensible conversation that's free from personal attacks - I think it makes the site better and more usable for everyone.

But we are way off topic there - this was about one person's feeling towards his countrymen and not about social dynamics and etiquette in Sajha.

Coming back to the topic , am curious to hear The Hareeb's reactions. The Hareeb, has this conversation affected your thoughts and feelings on the subject since you first posted?

Correction: Benign stupidity can be ignored. Harmless needling can be ignored too. I have said that to others in the past as well.

Phew vengeful stuff, too bad the thread had to take an ugly turn. But, I'm glad to be back reading it again. Yes, where is Hareeb, we worked hard to opine on this thread but no closure????