What do you guys feel about.. Why can't we talk or see girls?

well "DP" and "bedrock" did u see the comments from sssg ??? Why don't say something to him?? Why only me?? Men can insult woman as whatever they want? I know all they are trying to do is to make me embarrased!! Let them try their ass off.. no-brainers after all..... who cares!! If there were guys talking soberly and not making fun of stupid things then it would be fine but here are gentlemen with no real points?? How not fire back? I am surprised!! Unless u agree on the same views on one thing and do not agree with opposing opinion!

this thread feels like this

any guy over here who wants to sleep with a woman other than your wife shd get divorced for sure. this means that you do not love your wife, man if you think she can't satisfy you and you're looking for someone else your marriage is in deep shit and you shd get out of it because you're hurting you innocent wife and she would be better off with another man with some conscience and who's truthful and really loves her. Man how do you go home and look your wife in the eye when you have thoughts like these in your head. DOn't you even think for one second how she would feel if she found out? well you probably dont care anyway right? yeah seriously set yourself and your wife free. and a question to all you guys out there, how often do you cheat on your wife/ girlfriend? do you feel guilty or do you just keep shut and forget about it? Do you ever think about what would happen if your wife or kids found out or do you think that it's normal? Jus wanted to know how nepali men really are and if there's some men who would or wouldn't do this.

Onething for sure....is if husband and wife realtion dont work coz more of sexual problem.............wife looses her sexual appetite......husband gets bore...........find someones in bar.......intresting..........haves sex........reminds him of good times in young..........he find himself more young and start to be coo. and sex around........wife gets too much of it........she is like i am done with my patience.....then start to flirt with someone........comes along some clever guy charming her and melting like a butter...............

at the end.................children suffers............

Guys they should make Kamasutra eductaion part of our books so that there is no conflict in sexual realtionship...........if u make love with wife whole nite belive me she will be making your fav breakfast and praying u like god.........man.

See " nepali kanchi" how Moneyminded's brain is like!! I mean waste of time talking with these pigs... these are they guys who will learn these lessons when their wife leaves them for another man!! Why do they always blame on women saying that women looses their sexual appetite when they are ones needing 4 wives plus viagra...it's hilarious!! These are the typical nepali male......yes with no sex education but think they know it all about women's feelings and chemistry!! Have u guys ever asked your wife if u have made her satisfied??? Because nepalese women are always "sati-savitr", they won't tell u the truth.....but underneath of it all guys....they are fraustrated and mocking u hmmm....get it??? And since when u guys care about children?

^You really need to get laid...

I guess the medal contestant for the followup for the sting above are as follows -

Gold - Moneyminded
Silver - sweetiepie
Bronze - To be decided - But looks like sweetiepie should get that as well.

Just trying to learn about the sexaul fetis - didn't really mean wot I started with the string - I love my wife dearly. And we have a very good relationship. There is nothing wrong to look outside the box sometimes. As we are all human. But definitely I understand the fact that if you are married, you shouldn't be looking around unless u don't get anything out of it, and in that case you want to make sure your string is not tide or you don't have any kids who might suffer. If you are married with no kids get out there and have fun. For girls it goes the vice versa.

Sssg

Sweetiepie:
Thank you for your opinion.It was really fascinating to read.I don't know why you have that "pig" image of a Nepali male in your mind and you believe all Nepali males are the same. You need to stop this stereotyping.
All women are sexual.It is not country/society specific.But where you are from (or where live) might affect how you show off your sexuality.
Guys, listen to SP and ask your wife/gf if she is fully satisfied.If she is not satisfied yet, go an extra mile.This is a good advice from sweetiepie.By the way, I always do that.
DP.

Well Mr. DP, I know it is rather contingent to talk about these issue among nepali men being a nepali women........I had expected some resentment and I am getting it...it's nothing new! I view most nepali male as "pigs" because we know how majority of men in Nepal treat their wives, there's a high percentage of domestic violence, women killed because of dowry, rapes, sold in a different country, wanting their wives to be sati-savitri when they are out having fun.... we all know that don't we? Why try to ignore. YES, there is a small percentage of men trying to break this bondage.....but it's not a good percentage to even bother mentioning here. And it is true, that in Nepal we don't get sex education........and don't know a thing about it.But it's one of the most important thing in a good marriage..... I see men talking about it little openly then women....and like I said.....men think they know it all.The reality is no! It's considered a "TABBO" to discuss about it even with their wives. If men aren't satisfied then same would true with women....because they both have 50-50 in this case. My suggestion would be communicate and try to satisfy each other than looking for someone else even though it will be erratic for sure!

Sweetie!!! Hare SHIVA PHERI YAHA PANI.. Seems like you are victim in one way or other of your husband..Hazur lai bhayeko k Sweetie ji, kina KETA Manche Dekhi yeti saro nafrat huh?

Hey guys, guys!

I do it all the time with my sali. What's the harm? He he he....

"I JUST WANNA BE ABLE TO HAVE FUN EVENTHOUGH I AM MARRIED" ????

Dude, Married men/women have all the fun.

For men, If they stay home, they are good husband... samaj le wah wah bhanne and even your wife's friends fall for you ... If they don't stay at home, the are brave men, Ghar ma shrimati sanga masti, they can do it on the kitchen table, sofa, couch, toilet anywhere. If they don't, and they go out, to find a new girl, that is also masti, sounds adventurous. Single ko po ta no masti. :(

sweetiepie,
is it still fair to call all nepali males pigs? i assume,you and your mom are not married to nepali males.
the rest (of what you said) is true.
DP

dp, bro read ur article, ..haha bro timi building bata jump hanne ani u tell us to jump with u ..no way!! :P :P

nicely presented and written tho, good luck with ur married life..may it bring happiness only..

Dear DP, I have already mentioned the reason in my previous statement that majority are really bad in treating women. The very small percentage of men who are good can't be counted because the majority percentage overpowers it. So, in my view yes they are pigs.... as far as my dad goes that u mentioned (must be wondering whether I refered him as that) , he's among the good ones.......do u think otherwise he would send me (a girl) abroad to study spending his money?? Hope someday I can take back my statement of calling them pigs, when their mentality will change......... All the best with your marriage!!

Hi sweetiepie, Your messages to so called pigs will never to them because from my general understanding in a month or so, guys who come in Sajha are much better than that. I know you have lots of good energy in you, but i think its coming out at wrong place and wrong audience. May be you should send your articles and letters to nepalnews or nepalitimes where many more targeted audience will get it.

I think the new and upcoming generations in nepal treat their husband/wife as a friend, unlike the past generation who made them treat husband as a God. I think TV and other media are changing the way people used to think about husband wife relationship. A lot of men have also learned how to be romantic to their wives, and land up a hot and sizzling sex. Oh la la..

However, this has yet to reach villages and remote areas. Only time and education can change this, and i know it will take many more years when a couple in a villages can hug and kiss each other in public in front of their parents and still not be seen as a taboo.

Hmmmm.....careful what u say for fact "BEDROCK", I think u haven't seen the nasty postings from guys not only in this thread but every thread.... do u consider them as good boys? AMAZING! There are couple of good ones like DP who chats in a respectful manner!

In my view I have reached the right audience, young men who are educated and have traveled the world..... at least that's what I thought in the beginning...I mean even these men have no sense of what I am talking about then do u think sending an article in the society where men are even worse will help to get my points across? But I have another way to instead of this....Yes, I am very active for the women's rights and am involved in many foundations....that's the way to go. No wonder this generation's men are treating a little better but still they have a far more steps ahead of them but we educated ones are the ones who can change them to move rapidly into their goals.

Let's forget about city and go to villages, yes, it might take a long time because of their ignorance but women are suffering today.... we should keep that in mind! DO SOMETHING BUDDY ......U CAN MAKE A DIFFERNCE TOO! CHEERS

Confused Bro:
Thank you for reading my article and commenting on it.In my opinion, marriage is a package deal. It's similar to getting a bag of mixed fruits.Not every fruit in the bag is going to be sweet.You will get some apples, but you will get some lemons too.So, what to do with the lemons? Make lemonade and enjoy it.
Believe me, it's nothing like jumping from the roof of a building.Even if it is, you will jump one day...for sure.Just shoot me an invitation.Thank you for your good wishes.

Sweetiepie:
Thank you for calling me good.I feel wonderful...hehehe.Thank you for your good wishes.If you want, you can read my article about marriage,commitment, and freedom in Writer's Guild in sajha.

DP.

DP,

Where is the article? How do I access it?

Sitara Jee:
Here is the link.

http://guild.sajha.com/guild/read.cfm?guildid=9

Thanks,
DP.