i dunno about how the party went but i want to share something that utterly disappointed me........
i was callled to play the background in the opening and i sincerely practiced for that...i even sacrificed one of my important classes and a couple of days at my work......
but yesterday they just skipped our part and the excuse was that there was no time for it.....i know they started it in nepali time..but what the heck about the time we wasted 4 them.....
it's pitiful, nepalese people can be irresponsible to this limit.......

".....n what sin did i commit in raising a complain without a slightest trace of denouncement???? what is that long preach for......... "

"we validate and acknowledge your comments/concerns but poeple should not get down to being outright rude and obnoxious. If you think, we on purpose turned you down, then please accept our apologizes but if you were there, you definately knew what the problem was. There was some technical difficulty and as a result of that, we had to short change our program. As simple as that."

now let the thread rest in peace

Ladies, ladies, be careful not to give yourselves a heart attack in this process - not worth it I guarantee you :) . I missed this one but I have been to Lochar parties in the past and I thought they were pretty well organized most of the time - great entertainment and really great food.

The perfomances sometimes tend to have heavy shades of traditional influences to them which often, but not always (before anyone tries to jump on me ), tends to attract a slightly older age group than lets say a pure dance and booze party might. Given the age distribution of Nepalese in Boston (as per my own inference and not any particular statistical source), I doubt this will ever change because it appears there are simply more people with a taste for rural/traditional Tamu culture than there are for more non-traditional forms of entertainment. And that, in my humble opinion, is the fault line lying beneath not just this discussion but other similar conversations I have heard from many people in Boston.

My own feeling on the subject is I go to Tamu Samaj for traditional entertainment and I look elsewhere for other forms - after all this city has no dearth of other types of entertainment, right? And its not everyday that you get to see traditional performances so why not make the most of it when you get the chance.

Enough said - Happy Lochar and a happy new year to you all. If anything I have said offends anyone, all I can say is my intent is not to offend but simply to state what is on my mind in the spirit of openess and transparency.

:)

hey visitor27
don't try to be smart, we know how much u can jump inside the well. U R:

kiwigal,
will you shut up pls? you are being out of your own issues that you came up with. you are the one who neither like doing anything or nor like seeing things happening. I feel sorry about you and your pathethic attitude towards the organization of Boston L Party. You need to appreciate their work and the time they spend in it to entertain Nepali people. If you are really concern about doing anything, you better take your lazzy ass out there and do some real work insead of just chattering here in sajha behind that little nick. Of course you have right to critisize their work, but there is way to do it. You must not forget the hard work and time required to organize this kind of show. I am neither from Boston nor any one of those organizers, but i can't stop responding your moronic complain about the party.I believe you are one of those who dont do anything besides complaining. you really have a problem sweety; you need to take care of that. About you as an "eye opener", YOU do need help to get your eyes opened.

Spiderman: when did you take my picture? Nice job!

Visito 27r u tlking to me ?
You find all my posting disgusting ? AND YET YOU READ IT LIKE AN IDIOT ?

My language reflects where I come from and where I belong ? ha ha ha THAT PART OF THE EQUATION YOU WILL NEVER KNOW(but you think you do don't you Ignoramus? ) ! Moron is going under the assumption that it actually knows me . YOU THINK ? HE HE

IN THE END TALKING ABOUT CLASS ? Wooooohoooo !!!! Shows you fuggin mentality MORON !! You mean to indicate that people of lower class have no decency Mr IamBetterthanyou huh !

And yet your defination of ADD gives us a perfect picture of who you are. You really think that people here don't know what ADD is ? you think we are really that stoopid ? Dude go look in the Mirror...... YOU ARE LOOKING AT THAT SMARTY PANTS KNOW IT ALL !!!

Bathroomcoffee I forgot that you got the award for the most ego maniac psycho person of the year.

Get a CLUE will ya? Visitor27 is talking to Kiwigal if you try to follow this thread. Instead of putting your head up your ass all the time, it would be good if you try to find out what is going on before you go on your ugly psychotic barrage.

Yes MR Bidwan just like you ! Was I talking to you then ? Ok I am the most egomaniac psyho person of the year ! But if you scroll up MOROn you will see his post right under mine with no name!! that was what I was refering to BLIND MAN !

Well if you took you head out of your ass scroll up... he he MAYBE YOU WILL SEE WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP MR SIMPLETON.

Bathrooom you ASSumed that Visitor26 was talking to you. I rest my case.

Chor ko khutta kaat bhanna pako chaina kutta taani sakyo. Har Har Har.

And I was talking to you tooo right MORON ? BEFOE YOU SAYINGTHING WAS I TALKING TO YOU ? NOPE!! Before you point fingers, learn to mind your own business too! he he
Dunno who the chor is and whose Khuutaa you caught ? !! he he
Shit fur brains dun even know what he's har haring about ? ha ha
Must be really a BIDWAN to belittle himself to argue with a Egomanic Psyho !!
Sound more like a BID-WANE rather than a Bidwan. ha ha ha !!

heard it through the grape vine that IT WAS NOT MY KHUTTA THAT YOU CAUGHT....HE HE IT WAS THE FIFTH LEG OF MY PET DONKEY. HA HA HA
Know the difference between Khutta and others Mr Simpleton. ha ha ha

aww 2 replies for my simpletonic post? must have hit ya where it hurts huh? The point is you're losing it my friend. Barking up the wrong alleyway you are.

You have a penchant for turning threads of a completely different topic to a thread about yourself where you gloat in the make believe glory of your smartness and superiority.

Go right ahead and make my day!

BathroomCoffee: YOU SAID IT ALL! LOL....

bathroom coffee,anyone using his common sense could have figured out that visitor27 was talkin' 2 kiwigal. why're u making such a fuss?
that's what happens when u have coffee in the bathroom dude.r u tryin' 2 follow saif ali khan of salaam namaste where he drinks milk in the bathroom?
bidwan,no use talkin to bathroom coffee.

Yo Mr BitOwane,
So how long was that Khutta ? Hope you got a good grip on it ? he he !

Bathroom coffee honestly dont try to start making rude comments back and forth to try to avoid the real problem here. Your inability to read. If you had any comprehension skills you would know visitor 27 wasn't even talking to you. Sorry if there are to many "big boy" words on these postings for you to keep up. But for real when you make a mistake be a man and apoligize dont go making wild comments to hide the fact that you have a reading comprehension of a 6 year old. Speaking of 6 year olds who has a name like spiderman? Aren't comics for kids? And now that I am talking about spiderman why would you even have a picture of a male model on your computer to upload anyways? Do you have lots of pictures of male models on your computer? Because apparently you do and thats real homo. Just to wrap up kiwigal your a moron just because someone wears less clothing is no depiction of who they are as a person. Although im sure your not much to look at the beach, im sure you wear a bikini. Thats not much clothing; does that make you any worse of a person. Next time think it through before you make a stupid envious comment like that. And to the rest you all, go to the party next year and enjoy what the night is supposed to be a celebration of culture and tradition and it's not a talent show. Offer up new ideas instead of being a critic.

Keedeedai

I think you have just justified my comment about skimppy clothes yourself. That's what I meant when I wrote the comment there are appropriate attire for certain venues. For example like you said a bikini is for a beach, skimppy slutty clothes are for night clubs but for cultural programs there is usually smart casual clothes or traditional dress up which is appreciated and admired by all.

I think you have unnecessarily used the word "Moron" don't you think. I don't want to be disrespectful as you have written dai in the nick I guess you are a senior to me..........just presuming but I hope you are not drinking alcohol too much as it is effecting your capacity to judge things.

Peace and Leave me alone and also please come up with rational replies which is common sense.

Outrage just another organization banging his/her head against the wall. Oh well!! keep doing it........

kiwi girl! get a life...u were rude in da first place when u posted ur comments/ i didnt like it that time nor do i like it now and others didnt like it as well so sTfu . you said we r physchopaths..living in boston..wTf.i think you r nuts..no offence hence none shall b taken/ free world.. u suck..

From now on, I will not try to reason with the idiots I encounter. I will dismiss them by waving my paw and saying, 'wah wah'.